A friend or family member invites you to their home and serves you a cake. This unique cake is beautifully covered with colorful frosting, but the inside of the cake is completely packed with dog poop. Would you eat that cake knowing?
I’m referring to associations. If you know someone close to you, perhaps a relative or a friend, but they are filled with negative, fearful, and horrifying thoughts. They unload all these toxic and polluting thoughts on you everytime you encounter them. What would you do in this situation?
When I indicated earlier that there is frosting on the cake, I meant that the people you know, people you call friends, or even extremely close family members, are people you cannot ignore or distance yourself from. Because there is frosting on the cake, and you are occasionally and intentionally eating dog crap. You believe that you can quickly forget what you just heard and that this would not have any impact on your regular behaviors and activities. You also believe that others have every right to express themselves, and that they may be providing you with a taste of reality. Please don’t make this mistake since your subconscious mind is always listening…The main thing to remember about your subconscious mind is that it cannot distinguish between right and wrong. It can’t discern the difference between what’s real and what’s not. It will begin to believe…
When there is an accident on the other side of the highway, tell me honestly why traffic is slow on the clear side… Because people crave tragedy when it occurs to someone else. Why do television stations always portray horrifying and dreadful news? It’s because people crave tragedy and these networks are showing them to boost their TRPs.
In my opinion, we only have three options: association, disassociation, or restricted association. Negative people you don’t know are always easy to dissociate with. You might want to employ restricted association whenever you believe you can’t ignore or avoid specific people in your life. You can always keep the meeting short and dedicate more time for the people you want to see because they think decades ahead of you. They not only help your subconscious mind in a very beneficial way, but they also contribute to the improvement of your personality and trigger your mind towards constant learning and self improvement.
I believe in continuous improvement , which can be attained through interacting with creative people, learning new skills, enrolling in new courses, and reading books.
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